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  • She's Lost Control 42 Valentine Road London, England, E9 7AF United Kingdom (map)
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This year's celestial retrogrades and eclipses have been throwing us some shade.

But amongst it all there's been some seriously good shit going down.

You've just been too busy to soak it up.

Distracted by an infinite to-do list that's promised to take you to the next level.

Did you know that one of the keys to manifestation is gratitude?

When you align with abundance, you're magnetic.

Focussing on what you have achieved will put you on the super-highway to more success - in whatever form that looks like for you.

Join Wolf Sister and Steph from Liver Happy Life for the full moon in Taurus to harness its powers to get grounded and feel supported.

It's time to let gratitude be your attitude.

And it finishes with you opening up to even more magic and supreme abundance.


You arrive at She's Lost Control; you almost walked past it because it's tucked away from the hustle of Hackney. As soon as you walk through the door; the heady smell of incense alerts your senses that you're in the right place. You take a deep breath and feel your shoulders begin to release the tension that you've been carrying all day.

Wolf Sister welcomes you and you're shown where to put your belongings. Without hesitation your phone's set to flight-mode and it's buried in your bag. This is your time; you do not want to be disturbed. The room is set in a circle with comfy cushions and blankets; you're already thinking of how you can bring some of these mystical vibes into your home. Once you're seated and the rest of the group has arrived Wolf Sister and Steph introduces themselves and talk about the Full Moon and how it can influence us. Then the group to introduce themselves; it's totally informal and relaxed. There's zero pressure to share too much and you feel a sense of relief once you've had your turn. It actually felt good to speak; nothing like the cringey introductions you've had to do in team trainings with work. You've been feeling some intense feelings lately and it's reassuring to know that you aren't the only one.

This is exactly where you need to be.

As the ceremony begins, Wolf Sister explains the benefits of working with Ceremonial Cacao and you're seeing chocolate in an entirely new light already. She talks about how its affects can be heart opening, nourishing, healing and grounding. It's about so much more than just drinking hot chocolate and you're curious to see where this plant medicine is going to take you.

The ceremonial cacao is poured into cups and everyone sips slowly, mindfully connecting with the healing energy of this drink; it tastes bitter compared to regular chocolate but that's OK.

You lie back and close your eyes. Wolf Sister guides you through a gentle meditation and Steph begins to play the gongs. You notice your breathing slowing down and it's as if a weight has been lifted from your shoulders. You were slightly dubious about the effects of the cacao Drifting into a state of relaxation that you didn't know was even possible. The harmonies of the gongs take you into an even deeper state of bliss. You don't want this to end.

After the ceremony, you spend some time journalling about the insights that have been flowing throughout the session. You want to hold onto these feelings for as long as possible. As the words flow through pen to paper, some truth bombs are affirmed and you've got some clear clues about how you can move forward. You're excited about what you're opening up to.

Before the gathering closes, you're invited to pull an oracle card; you smile to yourself because it's as if the card has just read your mind.

There's magic in the air. You can feel it.

By 9.30pm you can't believe that the night's gone so quickly. You'd forgotten that it was possible to feel this calm and clear. You float home and fall asleep as soon as your head hits the pillow. It's been a full moon to remember.

Are you in?

No previous meditation/spiritual/mystical/ceremony experience necessary. It isn't advisable to drink ceremonial doses of Cacao if you're taking antidepressants or have a serious heart condition. Please contact if you're considering attending and you're pregnant or have any questions about the ceremony. If this event is calling your name; we'd love to have you with us.

Please bring pen and paper to take notes and gather any insights from the session.

Earlier Event: September 29
Later Event: October 27